I've been dating a guy for a couple months now and when we first started dating he said he's looking for a relationship and wants things between us to go well. I sort of want to ask if he's talking to other girls not to get angry or yell just simply to see if he's still looking for other girls so I know how invested to get at this point. First question is: if a guy is still searching for other options does that mean it's already doomed or just what girls and guys do until they have the exclusive talk?
Second question: how early is too early to bring up the conversation of being exclusive?
I know this all sounds a bit strange.. I've been cheated on in the past and don't want to invest too much if it's a ticking time bomb.
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... I think you could talk about being exclusive at 1st date, if that's your thing (the other person might not be interested of course, but many would...) Several months in? Yeah, by all means, that's long enough.
I've never been one to date more than one person at a time? (maybe not for long...) So no answer for that part :p0