People always say if you're not ready for a relationship to just screw people, but when I screw people they want a relationship, then I say I don't want one so they break it off even though I really wanted to continue having sex with them.
Or some people won't have sex with me until they know I'll enter a relationship with them. So I wasted all that courage and time building up to talk to them for nothing.
I just don't get why people are so quick to establish a relationship, like especially for young people, we know deep down they're going to end within a few years because people change.
What do you gusy think?
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People want to be secured. They want the person exclusive for them because if not, why would they waste time for a person who isn't going to be there for them? These people wants love and belongingness and not just a hook up but do not worry though, there are so many girls out there who are up to casual things.1