Like on a dating site i'll be talking to a girl and i'll compliment something like her eyes, usually they just say oh thanks. How come girls won't ever say something in return?
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I personally get really flustered when both girls and guys compliment me. Like, in my head I'd even rehearse things I'm supposed to say after getting a compliment, but I don't know, compliments just always catch me off-guard.
Here are some things that run through my head when I get complimented:
-oh shoot, is he/she being sarcastic? What am I supposed to say now? F*ck it I'll just smile. A smile's safe.
-does this person really mean it? Am I supposed to thank him/her? But then they'd think I actually think of myself as pretty, I don't want to sound obnoxious. F*ck it I'll just say "thank you".
-oh gosh this person is so good-looking, he/she prolly has seen better and doesn't actually mean it. F*ck it I'll just return the compliment. Oh gosh did I actually just tell him "you too"? Wtf is wrong with me?
.. so personally, if I don't return a compliment it's not because I'm being obnoxious or I don't feel as if you don't deserve one, I just get really flustered and nervous whenever people compliment me :P I don't know if that's the case for other girls (I know some just feel as if other people are obligated to tell them just how pretty they look) but I hope this helps :)2