Her first day is tomorrow and I want to send her a text in the morning wishing her luck. But I have also been intiating a lot lately and I kind of want to lay off and wait for her to initiate so there is more of a balence. Thoughts?
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Hmmm... what type of girl is she and how does she respond when you do message? Does she seem like she is really into you? Personally, I like when a guy texts me before something like that to wish me luck. I liked when a guy that I was talking to would text me in the mornings to tell me good morning and that he hoped I had a good day. It put a smile on my face. Then he stopped doing it. I thought he was losing interest. Come to find out, he wanted me to do the same for him every now and then. I had no clue. He thought that I wasn't as interested in him as he was in me. It was a complete misunderstanding that ended those texts. He was offended and I got my feelings hurt by his reaction. I was always enthusiastic when we talked or messaged (every single day), so I thought he knew that my interest was there. I was wrong. I also knew that his work hours were crazy and he was usually already at work when I woke up and sometimes when I went to bed. I didn't want to disturb him if I wasn't sure whether he was working or not. He saw that as disinterest. I told him, but he didn't want to hear it. In the end, he showed me his true colors and I am glad that he did. He saved us both a lot of time.0
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