I'm 26 years old. I've had 2 relatioships, first one was with my first love and lasted for 4 years. 2nd one lasted about 3 years and we broke up last week. I'm just wondering i've always been in long term relationships but somehow they just didn't lead to marriage. does it mean there's something wrong with me and i have to change myself to succeed at the next one? or they werent just the right ones for me? the breakup reason for both relationships was we didn't get along and too much fights/arguments eventhough they were both very happy during the first 1-2 years.
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Both of those are real possibilities (that they weren't the right ones, and that you needed to change/grow a little).
I have been in a couple very serious relationships myself, and obviously they didn't work out. I did change as a result of them, but it's not like I made a conscious decision to do so. It was more like a growth of character, I guess.
Anyway, it's unlikely that you've got anything majorly wrong with you. What's more likely is that these were just the wrong guys at the wrong time.0