Obviously, the first date might not see anything since things are new, but as dating goes on, how much intimacy is considered normal? Is it really hooking up every time you see each other or not? How does the physical correlate to the non-physical?
I feel like whenever I start "dating" a guy, the guy pushes for physical very quickly and soon the whole "how was your day?" "what are your passions/hobbies" just turns into sex, sex, and more sex. I'm not sure if I'm doing it right because I don't really enjoy that aspect as much as the conversation and genuine hanging out with someone.
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Well my relationship is kind of just sex sex sex, but I feel like we are really good at balancing it out by going out and just chilling (granted pretty much whenever we come back to my place we are just gonna have sex, but that is as much my choice as his) also my relationship started out very physical cuz that is the initial reason we contacted each other and it just happened to work out. make sure if he wants to hang out, it is not passed a certain time. plan things ahead of time to be sure that you guys will get to spend some nice couple time together. if you want to have someone to talk to don't go on a lot of movie dates. Some things me and my boyfriend do are go to the arcade and play games, we go out downtown (or whereever ) and just walk (we do this a lot). Not gonna lie sex is one of my favorite parts, but I really feel like for the amount of sex my and my boyfriend have we balance it out pretty well with other activities. Also if you want a relationship less based on sex, I think you should put your foot down in the beginning of the relationship and set the pace for sex, there is no rule that says just cuz he wants sex you have to have it with him. Actually my boyfriend and I didn't have actual sex till after about 3 months or so. you got to look at them as a friend and sexual partner. it was pretty easy for my case, I remember one day my boyfriend asked if he could be my best friend and we pretty are best friends that have a lot of sex. You got to be the boss lady!!!0