So I have been talking to this guy for 3+ years and we've been confidants for each other the whole time. Within the past 5 months I have lost a significant amount of weight. At first, when I was single and before he became single, he'd comment on things and say that it would be nice for my next boyfriend or gain weight for my next boyfriend etc. Now he makes suggestions and I'll say who cares (or something to that effect) and he'll say well I'm just saying and he has stopped mentioning me getting a new boyfriend. He's also become more affectionate. Before, during and after sex snuggles he says love often, not that he loves me but that he loves things about me. Like I love when you do this or that. He's also inserted me into future plans for example planning to take me to the beach this summer, then he played my address number in the lotto (which I thought was cute) and said if he wins that one or any lotto he plays he'll take me on vacation, and recently I had a dream that he was waking me up and in real life I was waking up late to work and when I told him he's like you see even in your dreams I'm right there taking care of you (which was also adorable I think).
So I'm not sure what this is, if it's us moving to something closer to boyfriend/girlfriend or more like friends with benefits since we've been having sex regularly for the past few weeks and he's only coming over for light conversation and sex (even though we have sex for 4-5 hours) but we talk everyday? Anyway, I'm ENORMOUSLY confused.
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Sounds more like friends with benefits.0