Why do boyfriends not really initiate touching?

I've realized my boyfriend doesn't really touch me much if I don't touch him first. But if i touch him first he will reciprocate do guys just not initiate touch much or is it he just doesn't care?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • He's shy and doesn't feel it's ok to initiate, thinks it's safer for you to initiate.

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What Guys Said 5

  • My girlfriend is like that.

    I can't keep my fuc*ing hands off her.
    She only touches me when I touch her and after a while she stops touching me even after I stopped touching her (not sexually)

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  • guess these guys... are STILL not comf around u? :)

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  • I think that he is this way, not all guys. I like touching all the time :D

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  • Thank rape culture for that

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  • I think he is maybe just being respectful. he wants to wait to see if you are in the mood

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What Girls Said 2

  • initial awkwardness and shyness?
    i guess if you initiate he feels its okay for him to do so too...

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  • he wants you to do it.

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