Being shy is becoming a problem for me right now that I'm dating a guy who is forward. I don't dare to make plans! I'm scared that he will say no or dislike my idea. I just say yes to everything he offers and let him take the lead but he's been complaining about it and I can feel that we are starting to drift apart a little bit right now. I noticed that if he doesn't text me then it's just quiet, I'm so used to having the guy take the lead all the time but this one wants me to do it too. It's been a while since we talked and my friends said he probably wants me to text him first I feel like I really should or what do you think? I keep thinking that if he wanted to see me then he would text me.. Maybe he's thinking the same or is he not interested? I need someone's perspective on this.
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Put in the effort he gives you. If he initiates a text initiate one later. This way you're investing what you've gotten. If he says no, it's not the end of the world. Plus he needs to know what you like as well. You can't form chemistry remaining idle. It just doesn't work.0