Guy I'm sleeping with asked me out since I'm going away for a few months after I sent him a sexy message in Italian that he loved. I then told him it could be the last time I see him. He says I can see him before I go if I want. I agree.
A day later he sends me a message saying maybe since he has a lot of shit to do.
Asking you guys since I feel like he has some sort of control over me. I try my best to keep this healthy, but then as soon as I gain any sort of balance, he pulls this on me. Is he doing it on purporse or am I being a fool?
I can't wait to go abroad, but this will be on my mind so I want some clarity as you do! haha
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I don't see the point in asking you out since he already fucked you a few times and you're going away...
I mean if I was asking you out it would be because I want to upgrade you from a fuck buddy to an actual girlfriend.
But since you're going away, there is no future, so I wouldn't try to actually date you in the first place.
So really, asking you out now... it makes no sense to me.1