I read an old post and was shocked on the answers. Anyways, if she had a career, car, house and took good care of her children would it really be awful for a guy to date her? Her first kids father died and the second was controlling/abusive. Is it really frowned on to be a single mom because of things that happen out of her control? I don't expect younger guys to say anything nice but this is more for the older crowd. But feel free to drop an opinion either way.
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I really would sympathize with this woman.
For the lost of her first husband.
But why have kids with someone who is controlling and abusive?
That shows that she has self esteem issues.
Because any secure woman wouldn't deal with that.
I don't think people should judge this woman on her past.
I also don't think kids should be looked at as baggage.
However, if a man is walking around with no kids of his own,
It's only natural he's going to want the same.
It's not that he's judging you... it's that he has a preference.
I find people can look past a woman have one kid.
But when it comes to a handful of them... that's overwhelming for some guys.
This woman can find true love!
I would applaud her being super mom... despite all of her hard obstacles.
She will eventually find love... although it may be harder to find.3