I've been on 2 dates with this guy and he's obviously very attracted to me. My gut is telling me there's something off about this guy. I think he's lying to me.
I found out he's interested in sleeping with other women but he remains interested in me and wants something long term. I am suppose to go on date #3 with him and he's going to be driving. I have a weird feeling about this. What do I do?
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Personally, I wouldn't recommend getting involved with someone who may take you on a date and be screwing another woman the next day or someone whom you may have an amazing weekend with including a passionate kiss, yet his mouth was just on another girl's vagina some time during that week leading up to the date. In addition, if he's having casual sex and messing around with WOMEN, as in more than one, it increases his odds of getting an STD and possibly giving it to you.
friends with benefits is in that realm of selfishness, boastfulness, and greed that gets people hurt. Point blank period. Whether it's one of the f*ck buddies or someone else indirectly somehow, friends with benefits is usually bad news and the sexual pleasure tend to not be worth the emotional and mental weight that are apart of the package. Because of this, I would highly recommend staying away from a man who does not know what he wants and has a desire to treat women like fleshlights with heartbeats. You are probably going to get hurt and who wants to walk into a brand new dating situation with a guy who was just admiring and absorbing every curve, lick, touch, taste, and visual sight of another woman? Kinda disrespectful in a way.1