So it seems im in love with a person who is probably never going to love me back. He cares but not enough. What do I do. How do I kill the feels before it becomes too noticeable that I like him.
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1. How do you know that he would never have feelings for you. How you view yourself is quite different than how everyone else views you. Girls walk around being concerned that their boobs are too small when half the guys on the planet actually prefer smaller boobs.
2. Your generation has developed an institutionalized fear of exposing your feelings to others. You profess your love in a text and you break up in a text, you call it "chillin'" instead of dating and when you finally call it dating, you quickly add, "But it's not official." I guess I didn't realize that dating relationships had to be recorded at the courthouse to become official.
Maybe this guy really likes you and he's waiting for a sign from you that his feelings would be reciprocated. What if each of you really wanted the other but you never got together because you were both afraid to make yourself vulnerable.
One of the most attractive things that a woman can ever do is expose her vulnerability to a man who she trusts.0