Okay, so I just got home from a day date. When we were setting up the date, we were debating different options, and he texted that maybe we should "start" at a particular location and then "play it by ear." So we went to this particular museum and spent 3 hours. During the date, he kept making jokes and having this sparkle in his eye, but I still wasn't sure he was feeling it. After we'd seen the whole museum, he asked if I was ready to go. He didn't suggest anything further at that point, so I took this as the date was now ending. As soon as we got outside, I thanked him for the date. He replied that he can cross that museum off his list now, and that he enjoyed it. (Bad signals in my mind, but maybe he was reacting to what seemed like a brush-off from me?) I was really nervous about the goodbye, so as soon as we got near my car, I said, "Hug?" and hugged him bye. He seemed a little stiff when I hugged him. Was he thinking that I'd just brushed him off, or was it that he just really wasn't feeling it? Should I wait for him to make the next move?
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Possibly. From the way you wrote the question it seems like you was the one acting Unsure, insecure and generally causing the bad vibes.
Why wait for him to make a move? I don't get why people feel the need to wait for the other person. If you want to message him and like him then do so, life's to short for hanging about.0