I'm 16 and never had boyfriend yet alone been asked on a date it doesn't really "bother" me it just kind of makes me think like what is wrong with me? am I not good enough? will I EVER be good enough? I don't know what to do or think anymore. I know I still have time but its hard seeing everyone talk about their "bae" and crap when no guy even talks to you
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Not necessarily. A male's attention will never be a true indication of how good enough a female is or is not. This is because most males are immature, premature, reckless, inconsiderate, tactless, tacky, internally undesirable, mentally and spiritually underdeveloped, and their own moral compass is either completely broken or non-functioning at all. The people talking about their "bae" typically end up getting irreversibly disappointed by that person especially if he's a teenager. Most teenage boys are just seeking to get their d*ck wet anyway and they will be as charming and cutesy as it takes to rack up their sexual experiences.
Anyhow, I didn't start dating until I was 18 years old and it was totally worth the wait and every single second of identical frustration you have. The guy was absolutely amazing: courteous, respectful, adventurous, ambitious, daring, and more! He was a straight A break-dancer who came here from another country on an athletic scholarship with eyes that could make you melt with just one look. He once shaved the first letter of my name into his head to show that he was taken :) He was more of a man than any of the little boys in high school who were disappointing young girls with the mask of someone valuable. Some things are certainly worth the wait!1