Hi :) okay so I'm currently talking to a guy and we both are crushing on each other. We were messaging, then the fact that my dad hits me sometimes came up somehow. Although he was being nice about it, is that a big turn off?
I mean some guys make not want to date girls who've experienced domestic violence because the situation can be messy? (I do have a good education and job, and I'm pretty normal other than that though)
any replies would be much appreciated!
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Yeah it's your dad. No offense but if your dad beats you my brain says yeah if this girls suppose to be your girl you can't let anyone beat her but um this is her dad. That shits still wrong and fucked up but I'm not sure how to handle that situation. Then I think well what does this girl think relationships are suppose to be like among other thoughts and eventually it turns into a tailspin of what ifs. Then I try to leave before I get in too deep cause it seems like a big scary confusing thing. Just being honest. My ex had a dad who was verbally abusive, a sorta violent bodybuilder for an exstepdad, and a nice but relatively new and dismissive new stepdad. Yeah I was confused and worried a lot and it was an extremely difficult relationship so I fear stuff like that now.0