We dated for seven months, I treated her like royalty, this other guy started talking to her while we were dating and then she dumped me, they now like each other but I know this kid and it will not last between them. I still love her and I want her back. What do I do?
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Just move on and forget about it is the best thing to do. The more you try to convince her that he is wrong for her and you are right for her, the more she will move away from you and towards him.
You can't convince a girl with logical argument to be attracted to you. Attraction is not a choice.
You treating her like royalty, is likely to be one of the biggest causes of her becoming less attracted to you and choosing someone else. You can't just buy them off by giving them waht they want all the time. You aren't showing that you are a challenge. You are showing that you you are easy and that she could have you back if she wanted.
If she could have you back so easily, then you aren't very valuable are you. What would a valuable guy do if a girl broke up with him. Of course he would just find another girl as he would have plenty to choose from.
A girl dumps you, goes of and gets with some other guy? You shouldnt even want her back after that.
And you think that her new relationship won't last so you are going to wait it out? That is kind of sad man. You don't know if it will last or not. Maybe it won't last but that doesn't mean she will want to be with you again. Also if she did get back with you after the guy is done with her, it would only be temporary because she isn't finding you as attractive as other guys.
You have to change the way you are with girls. They may say they want to be treated like royalty but that's not really what they want. They want a strong guy whos doesn't give them everything they want, who they can talk to and be themselves with. Someone they feel safe with and who they respect. You can't respect someone who kisses your @$$ now can you.
The best way to get her back is to show her that you are desired by other girls. And the way to do that is to date other girls and live your life without constantly thinking about the girl who dumped you.0