I've been through two girls who are emotionally unavailable. Both of them i loved and are with someone. I think about them both each day, and it seems my life is nothing but missing them. My thoughts are all made up of missing these stupid girls. I'm all alone and nobody cares. Feel like i'll never find someone and i'll never be truly happy..
How do i become happy with being alone. I feel like i'll never be happy until i find someone else. I hate that. I crave companionship and i shouldn't.
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You're absolutely right, you shouldn't rely on someone else for your own happiness. Now that you recognize that and ARE single, you have the chance to learn to be happy being alone. There is an enormous difference between being alone and being lonely. Find some hobbies, do things that bring you joy. Discover what makes you 'you'. Once you fulfill yourself alone you'll be in a much better mental and emotional state to be with someone else. Another person is meant to enhance your life and bring out good qualities in you, NOT 'make' you. Take all the time you need to be content and happy being alone. Like I said, figure out what you want out of life and what makes you happy. Take up some hobbies. Join some clubs. Hang out with friends, make some MORE friends. You'll attract much better quality people if you, yourself, are a confident and secure man who knows his worth and is able to be alone without wallowing in it. I promise. People sniff out need. You'll meet people who rely on someone else needing them, and you'll never be truly happy or healthy.0