iI'm thinking of mentioning the above in my Okc, as I'm not interested in meeting those people. do you think that is ok
Is this ok on okcupid :"you should message me if you've never been married, engaged and don't have kids"?
What Guys Said 7
That's fine, it's your profile and you are able to limit who you want contacting you. If you have too many people messaging you, strict things like that can be a way of helping filter.
Keep in mind though, that you are basically asking for 'people who have gone their entire life, into their late 20s, without having a real, solid, long-term relationship'. Unless you are putting a huge amount of difference on 'legal marriage' vs 'common law marriage' for some reason. So people in that 26-30 age range, that have never had a relationship that was all that serious, are going to possibly have some kind of issues, particularly around commitment.
If you are looking for something casual and light though, that could actually be an even stronger reason to put up requirements like that, as it would be weeding out people that tended to commit quickly.
So yes, it's ok. And depending on what kind of people you're looking for, it's quite possibly a really good idea.0
it's yer account... so u can set yer own rules!0
yeah thats fine0
So some guy's wife or fiance died and you wouldn't be open to him? smh0
I am one of those people and I wouldn't message you. My mom had a four year old kid and my dad was divorced when they met. They got married when my dad was 25 and my mom was 23. My dad's previous marriage changed him drastically and for the better as did my brother for my mom. They've been happily married (and I don't use the word happily lightly) for 25 years. Just yesterday my cousin told me when she looks for a partner she uses my parents as her example. Despite having wonderful parents of her own. Her dad's spine was damaged when he was 19. And now he struggles to walk but it drastically changed the way he approached life. Now both of our parents are well off compared to growing up poor on a farm and all of their kids have degrees a few on the PhD and MD level. I say this because sometimes poor experiences are necessary to teach us valuable skills and those valuable skills could make all the difference in your future. And if I read your request I'd say this person's probably not the person I'd want to meet just because she's disqualifying people over one life decision so quickly.1
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What Girls Said 4
That's how my boyfriend and I matched up.
We don't believe in marriage and don't want kids, so it was crucial for us to be compatible in that respect.
If I don't want kids of my own, I sure as hell don't want to have to deal with somebody else's and especially their ex bitch.0
They're your own preferences! Go right ahead.0
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