I've known my entire life there's no way I want kids. Everyday when I see kids screaming in the store or being difficult with their parents, it just turns me off to have kids even more so it hasn't changed with age at all. I plan to have a career and to work my entire life, including when I'm married, so I can afford nice things and live comfortably.
I just really wonder... how badly does it affect someone in the dating world? If you really liked someone and you wanted kids, would you be willing to give that up just to be with that person? I know it's something you should tell someone immediately, which I fully intend to do. I'm just wondering how many times I will be rejected and dumped over that...
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LOL girl, you are 20, there's no way in hell you could possibly know how you are gonna feel about this is 15, 20 years when you hear your biological clock... You may think you do, but take it from me, you don't. Until I was about 30, I literally hated kids and could never see myself having kids. No way I said. Well, then my little nephew arrived, I got older, and having kids didn't seem like the worst thing anymore. It's still not like I absolutely need to have kids, but with the right guy I'd consider it.
I guess what I am trying to say is, you don't know what's gonna happen to you within the next 20 years. You may change your mind, or you may not. No matter how strongly you feel about this now, believe me. Therefore, I don't think this is something you should be bringing up during the first date or so, unless of course the guy asks you about it. You are 20, you shouldn't even have to talk about having or not having kids yet... And by that I don't mean that you are not an adult, because you are, but you just don't know what lifes got in stake for you. And it's a fact that people change over time.0
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