well, i've heard rumors about him going to brothels or once have been there from my best guy friend and he told me himself that he goes to stripclubs, and i was like OMG i can't keep up wiuth this, i think it was okay with the stripclub but not the brothel! i don't know if it's true but that's totally disgusting! he's that kind of guy who wouldn't date a none virgin and i really like him, he does too but how can i have a boyfriend like him? first, i don't like guys who do that kind of stuf second, he wouldn't date non virgins although he's a whore himself? that means he wouldn't want to date me if i wouldn't be a virgin, i don't know how to feel about all of this, if he'd change i'd probably accept his mistakes but he once told me that he did really bad things in the past even though he was in a relationship and i'm afraid that he'd do that to me as well, girls, guys am i overthinking? is every guy like this and i'm just overreacting?
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You say that you think he is disgusting and that he is a whore.
How can this be a hard decision to make?
I don't know if you think that you are that special snowflake that he will change just for you. Or you think that he is broken and you are the solution. Those thought are what makes good girls date jerks and finally makes them bitter and hate all guys and call everyone jerks instead of just think and use their brains to begin with ans never get involved with those guys to begin with.
Just walk away from this.0