It seems every time I start to gain feelings for a guy, they suddenly lose interest. Even if they have been chasing me for years. It's getting exhausting and I just can't figure out what's wrong with me
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Nothing is wrong with you. It is human nature to want what you don’t have until you have it. Then you start questioning whether you really wanted it in the first place.
Some of us outgrow that faster than others. This dilemma is a strong argument for being honest and fearless about your feelings from the start. If you are interested, say so. Nine out of ten people will go into game mode but the last one might say “Really, so am I.” Then you have something to explore.
The whole “playing hard to get” strategy, my God, who has time for that?0