Been seeing this girl for about 4 months now. been on lots dates, she's been round to mine a few times we have slept together and everything has been going great, she's even told a few of her friends and her mum about us.
she went on holiday last week and prior to that was unable to see me (work) and text me saying how she was sad and missed me and can't wait to see me and have "cuddles". throught her holiday she was very responsive to my texts, we dont normaly text a lot when she's at home working, altough she did that week on holiday, maybe as she had more time?
anyway when she got back I asked her what her weekend plans were, she sent a very detailed message about being busy and seeing family. I text back the next morning saying cool and asked her if she had any plans the following weekend, we should go out.
4 days have passed and she hasn't replied. I'm not sure whats going on? I haven't changed my behaviour towards her or said anything wrong. maybe I came accross as needy asking to make plans twice? she's never been the fastest at responding and a couple of days is normal, but this feels diffrent. Why has she gone from wanting to see me to not replying? Im thinking of just cutting contact and if she's intrested she will come to me? anyone have any good advice on the situation? I do no she's is extremly busy with work and social events. I want to text her to ask whats wrong but I dont want to come off as needy and desperate, If she has any intrest she will surely reply or get back incontact right?
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Ya these situations suck like no other b/c you just don't know. Maybe she is into another guy bruh? good luck brother. Just don't keep texting, keep going after her. She'll come back if she wants, detach emotionally and start meeting other girls I'd say.0