As a guy, the plan was to start looking for a wife and start dating girls when I hit 25. Then I would get married at 28ish. Recently though, I've been thinking that I should start looking for a wife and dating girls when I hit 20. A friend told me that in order to find "the ONE", you have to try many times and get a lot of misses. He said eventually you will get a hit. He said 25 is too late to be looking for a wife if I want to be married by 28. What do you think is best?
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I don't think you should actively search for a "wife." That implies that once you find a wiling candidate, you should marry her in the blink of an eye. I think you should date until you land upon an amazing girl. Then you should try her out to see if you like being around her for a long period of time. If you do, and it feels right, then consider making her your wife.1