I have been dating this guy for almost 5 months already. We rarely see each other due to our busy schedules and because we are cities apart. He's very busy because he works in a hospital. I never complained because I'm not yet his girlfriend and I understand it.
But the problem is, everytime we talk on the phone or text, all he talks about is his illness and whatever sickness he has. He always tells me he's tired and his mood often changes from not-so-good to I'm-not-in-the-mood-I'm-tired-let's-talk-tomorrow mood. He sometimes asks me to tell him stories or anything that happened in my day but it seems like he's not paying attention.
I don't know what to do. I like him and I think I already am falling for him. I don't want to put all the time and efforts we both invested to each other for 5 months but with this, I don't know how to handle it anymore. As someone who always feels bad, sad, miserable, and whatnot, I can't stand to hear same things from someone I expect to be the cause of my happiness.
I need your advice... thank you.
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I personally like to keep my feelings to myself. Though I wouldn't mind if others want to talk to me about their problems if they actually have some legit problems. It's good to have someone to talk to, but I've met some really immature people who keep complaining and make themselves feel really bad for no reason.1