There is a guy that I like that I met 2 months ago, until last weekend we had our first date after those 2 months. I hope he had a good time with me as Im sure I did with him. We made out tongue included hehe. He complimentend me on the way I look that day he liked it. The thing is that he is into healthy lifestyle and working out. He practices Raw Fitness and also surfs. SInce this is too soon I know, I know that in order to pursue him in a way for us to end up hanging out often I need to take things slowly and not act like a desesperate clingy woman at my 40 something of age. He is 42. We talked on our first date that we both clearly want to remain single and no kids for the moment. I mean not that we were talking about our future together but we talked what we see ourselves for the future. When we text each other Im the one who always intiitate the conversation but when I do he replies but he is not that talkative on the phone, he can skip questions that I ask for the moment but answered me others. The thing is that in order for me to lets say make him know im interested in him and that he knows I think about him. SOmetimes I lwantto text or send him random things on his phone soemthing that may lift his ego like guys like but also doing that I can keep getting to know him better and we an have a conversation of random things not necessarily personal. Could I do that? Of course I wotn do that everyday cause that will saturate him and make him tired and I be sound clingy or needed for his attention.
Will it be too soon?
What Guys Said 2
You're likely going to need to throttle back on the whole texting thing. Not everyone from our age group has fully bought into the whole text/smartphone culture/necessity, or is even that communicative. Many of us prefer to be face to face, present with those we care about, like before cel phones.1
if he was interested he'd text 1st...
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