Let's say your a shy girl and you already kind of like the guy who's asking you. If a guy asked you if you were free and you said you weren't doing anything, and then he said something like "You're coming to get (lunch/coffee/whatever) with me, right now, let's go!" Do you find it cute/spontaneous, takes some pressure off since he's kind of making the decision for you? Or is it the exact opposite, too much, puts more pressure on you.
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If he does it with the right amount of playfulness and I already like him, I'd find it fun and cute. If I don't know him, it could come off pushy.
I like confident guys with a touch of arrogance though (if he can back it up) so I'm used to the guys I like taking charge. Also, I'm not shy, I'm more outgoing, so this approach, especially if I already like him, would be welcome to me. It would be the same if he asked very politely too, however. If I like him, the way he approaches isn't that important (as long as it's not horrible), just that he does.0