I tried online dating, but I think girls have too much of a selection on there. So even if I do have a good date, i've discovered girls still write me off after a couple dates. One thing I used to do was approach girls I saw throughout the day, but back then I didn't have much experience talking to girls so it didn't workout that way back then. Can a guy meet girls like this? Like for example I chat up the girl who works at the gas station, or the cofee shop. etc. Or I see a cute girl at the grocery store.
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I would really like it if a guy approached me in a nice, non-aggressive way if I was at the library or... actually, I pretty much only go to the library. But, if you met a girl at a pet shop or in a music shop you could start a conversation about her pets or taste in music. If you can get her to make eye contact and smile, it's worth saying hi!
But guys that approach you at train stations or bus stops can be a bit off putting because you can't really leave until your train arrives, so it can feel threatening. Also, if I'm clealry absorbed in a book, and/or have my headphones on, that's a pretty clear signal I'm not looking for conversation.0