About a month ago, I randomly met this beautiful girl at the university, helping her with her notes which she dropped. I kinda flirted with her then, and got her number.
Went on a few dates, which were actually awesome, we really had a great chemistry. I could talk with a girl about some heavy subjects, such as Germany's new "ecological measures" which are, in short, the comeback at the exploitation of centenarians coal mines and the shutdown of all nuclear power plants before 2020 or something. Whatever, a week ago she began speaking a lot more about herself ; for example a book she's been writing for a year, or others personal things. Touched, I wanted to do the same, so did I. I'm not someone who shall speak easily about himself, but I felt confident this time. Spoke about my own depression, and how I've been feeling a lot better since 2 months or something. It was hard for me. Well then, the thing is that this morning I got this text saying that we should be "just" friends. I'm actually really sad, but I want to understand what went through her hear, so here I am. Thanks for your future answers and sorry for my English , it isn't my mother's tongue
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Depression is a turn off when you show it off. No one wants to be around someone who doesn't show self esteem, strenght, will to do things in life or interest in subjects and all that stuff. You, my friend, although depressed, don't seem like this kind of guy. What matters is what you showed her about you, and it seems like it was interesting to her. So what difference does it make that deep inside you have those issues? So many people have them. In my opinion, this girl has some other motives and the only way you're going to know them, is by asking. It's legitimate and she will probably give you an honest answer, so go for it, find out what happened. Good luck!0
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