What leads up to it? What makes the girl comfortable before going in for the first kiss? How can you be absolutely sure the girl likes you enough for you to do that? How can a guy get over his shyness and social anxiety enough to just "go for it"?
Guys and girls, answer specifically and from your experience, thanks : )
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alcohol. I'm not a pig telling you to get her wasted and plow her. But after a couple of drinks you will both be mellowed out. It will make things very smooth. It's also okay to ask, SOMETIMES!. After you go out a few times it would be almost always acceptable to kiss her on the cheek. If she was grossed out by you enough to not let you do that, she wouldn't still be going out with you...afterwards when you are on the phone or texting just ask if she minded the kiss. tell her you liked it. Just be really sweet and you can't go wrong. She might even hint around that she wants a real one.0