I always hear that girls talking about how they can't stand when ugly creepy guys talk to them. The question is would I know if girls would consider me as one of those guys. I normally keep to myself and have never had a girl approach me. I have always been told that I would never get a girlfriend, because I am overweight and have my problems. Even though I go to the gym and play basketball (cardio) and started lifting weights the last 3 wks. On top of that I have no idea of what to say or how to approach girls I don't know yet find attractive. I just seem to feel hopeless since I can't seem to lose weight and approach girls. It seems like I feel that I am pretty much worthless since I am always told that I will never get a girlfriend and the results happen to be true.
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Unfortunately, you fit into the "ugly creepy" category right now--which isn't fair, because odds are you aren't actually being creepy, but women today throw that around very casually--it's almost come to mean any man a girl isn't interested in, despite the word actually having more sinister connotations, so definitely not fair.
Keep working out, keep trying to feel good about yourself. When you shape up a bit, start asking out girls--some will still think you're creepy, but you have to push through that until you find out what works with them.1