I'm not mad at him or anything but whenever he takes a while to text back I know I start to miss him even more so will it work if I do the same?
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Don't play mind games. Address the problems in your communication. He's likely to conclude you're not interested if you start doing that.
I was in a relationship, long distance, and she started texting less and less. Med student. Said she was busy with school. I've never doubted that. I privately suspected she was losing interest, but I was patient, I kept my concern to myself and accepted her at her word. Then one day she cut all contact without even saying goodbye. Literally stopped answering in the middle of our last conversation. Eight months. Couldn't even dignify it with a discussion at the end of things.
I loved this woman. I still haven't bounced back from that.
I probably should have taken the hint a few months earlier. If I get in another relationship... well, lesson learned. Don't be so patient, don't be so accomodating.0