So this guy's been sending all the signals that he's into me. We had our first date last night, and still he was sending all these signals that he takes me seriously and is interested in a potential relationship--suggestions of things we might do together, etc. There was chemistry there, too, for sure. I was stunned when the waitress came by, though, and he said to her, "Hey, would you split the check in two?" To *her*, mind you--not even to me--which would have been messed up enough. He'd asked me out and pursued the whole thing--wth? Even after that, he was following up with suggestions of additional dates, so it wasn't a blowoff.
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He's one of those guys who prefers splitting it I guess... and technically that's fine, but I know what you mean. It leaves a strange impression. He took you out somewhere, that you probably had no say in deciding, and then has you pay for on a date he organized and asked you out to, and he orders whatever he wants... I don't know. If you offer that's one thing, but... He should've just gone with a coffee date first if he's worried about spending too much.1