Would you rather not deal with him being gone for long periods on deployment, or worry about him being harmed or coming home with post traumatic stress?
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Former military myself here, and I would date a guy who is in the military or is former military. In fact, I prefer it. While some women may get hot and bothered by a military men, not many men are that turned on by military women because they think we're all butch. Some of us are, but then you have others (like me) who love to put on a pair of high heeled shoes at the end of the day.
My opinion is that some women don't want to deal with the added stress of deployments, PTSD and such along with complications that already come with relationships. These women have their reasons for not getting involved however, don't let it get you down. If she's the right woman, the uniform and the lifestyle that comes with it won't bother her.
By the way, if the man in question is you, thank you for your service :)1