This girl and I have everything in common, and I am going to ask her to be my girlfriend soon. But physically she looks nothing like the type of girl i envison my self with. One example, she is a blonde I am usuially way more attracted to brunettes. Is it weird that I am still into her even though she isn't my "ideal" physically/or match what I consider to be my "type"?
This isn't meant to be shallow, sorry if you think so.
- Not it is not strange to be into someone who isn't your "type"Vote A
- Yes it is strangeVote B
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Most people have some sort of IDEAL when it comes to the type of people they're attracted to. But there's so much variety in this world that usually there's plenty of people you'll meet in life who you still find very attractive even though they don't look like that ideal you had in your mind.
An ideal is nothing more than a fantasy, in real life people have too many unique features about them to be inflexibly caught up on one specific set of features. While you may generally PREFER, say, redheads with green eyes, there's plenty of women in this world who don't fit that criteria that you may still find equally attractive.2