When a woman asks a male colleague out to lunch and takes him somewhere fancy and pays for it, is this considered a date? Would the guy think it was a date?
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Be careful with this.
I lost a friend over this kind of thing once. We worked together, too. She was my subordinate. She was single (and sexy) -- but I never revealed this to her. She was a good friend. We grew to be very close. As a sales manager, she handled ALL of my dept. 's paperwork.
But, one night, my wife got in a bad fight with her when they were drunk by my fireside. I wasn't there to witness what the hell happened, but I was told that "the home-wrecker wanna-be would never take our girls, and was not allowed over any more".
Needless to say, I had to quit my job 2 months later -- for another company.
Stay away from this like the plague. Please, for your own sake.1