I'm dating a guy at the moment. we already slept together. he always says stuff like im so sexy and he is incredibly attracted to me and he finds me irresistible and the likes. whenever i post new pictures on my social media he always compliments them but in a sexual way like your body looks so hot in that dress or ur legs look great etc. we texts during the day and we talk about everything other stuff but the conversations usually get sexual by him . when we meet up he's back to normal and polite and we get along well . do you think that he is objectifying me or im just overthinking it?
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well since u already slept together and I'm guessing he isn't ur boyfriend officially... [not sure], i think he's just going to hold that sexual value to you.
when ur not with him, his imagination may take over and of course his strongest memory will be the visuals he saw when you slept together.
look hun, a lot of guys objectify women, whether they sleep with them or not. the only way to tell whether he's true to you is if he can be romantic with you, and not only sexy.0