Do you ever worry about seeming too keen when you are a month or two in seeing a girl?
What do you do to come across less keen? Why do you do this?
- yes so I back off a bit62% (13)
- No I don't care38% (8)
Most Helpful Guy
''Why do I do this?''
Because the more I make it seem like I've got other stuff to do and other women to see than just wait around all day for her, the more valuable I appear in her mind.
If I just appear automatically in love with a girl she subconsciously thinks ''wow i already won him over by barely talking to him, he must not have many other women is his life, so he must not have much value. Next!''
Whereas if I keep my cool and don't let her think I'm that into her she thinks ''damn I'm not sure if this guy is actually all that interested in me at all, he must have other women in his life fighting over his attention meaning he must be a great catch, I need to win him over those other girls!''0