He likes to bite me and grab my fingers and squeeze them really hard. He slowly applies more and more pressure until it hurts and I say OW. His response was typically, really that hurts? Then he wants me to squeeze him hard and thinks it's weird when I can't do it hard... kinda weird considering I'm a girl and if we're flirting isn't that attractive that he's stronger than me? I don't know why I just really like spending time with him. He doesn't do it as much and actually apologizes now. Should this still be considered a red flag? I always ask him why do you like doing this and he would just say you like it... weird.
He likes to hurt me, is it playful or not?
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It appears here, dear, he is the sort of guy who loves pain and perhaps even rough sex as well. It's a Control thing and I believe you should yes... Consider it a Big red flag.
If he has started to do this, just because he lessens his blow now, doesn't mean he won't pick it up in the future. He likes a challenge when he tells you to be tough with him, it may even be a turn on to him.
Tell him you enjoy his company but to keep his hands off the tender merchandise. You also tell him you like the soft touch with a guy and he needs to Handle with Care, if he dare.
Good luck. xx1
i dont think it is just playful.2
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