Okay because I used to date someone for a year and durinf that year we only saw eachtoher about 5 times. And a few months before we broked up I would ask him if he wanted to come over to my place and chill, or come and hangout with me and our friends on the weekend, and I've even asked him if I could go over his house (which I've never been too). And whenever I do, he would come up with an excuse why he can;t, it's either that he's working, his grandma is sick, or something is wrong with his car.
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He was already checking out of the relationship before you officially broke up. Not even sure you were "dating" if you saw each other 5 times in 12 months unless it was long distance. Either way, convenient excuses to avoid hanging out is a very bad sign.0