Everything's really good in my relationship right now with my boyfriend but I'm finding everytime something goes wrong , I shut down and pull away from him. Like I kind of expect the other shoe to drop although the first one hasn't. He doesn't give me reasons not to trust him , but I was cheated on in both of my last two relationships so those insecurities still pop up to bite me on the ass every so often. I really love being with him, he treats me very well but I need to know if these insecurities will ever go away. I don't want to be the one to hurt him because I'm so scared of being hurt again. Help please?
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Yes, they do go away.
I used to watch the show, Kung Fu (I'm a martial artist). Yes, it was a bit silly but now and then they had something genuinely profound. Once Master Kan said "If while building a house, a carpenter strikes a nail and it proves faulty by bending, does the carpenter lose faith in all nails and stop building his house?"
You cannot afford to let one or two foolish men ruin your dreams. You must realize you are with a new person and go on building your life. Time will give you perspective.1