The point is that, I lived in a different city, sleapy town in a countryside, nice town but with not much going on. And had some bad times with a girl, a break up, recovering, trying to date. A friend of mine who is from a big city wanted me to come to / move to this city he lives in. The girl - a friend of his contacted me, and we started kind of online dating. I had a vacation and because she was persuading me, and my desire not to sit at home doing nothing - I went there, to visit them and some of my family members from that city. We dated, I figured that this girl fell for that guy, but because they were just friends (with benefits) she started to flirt with me... Her story is that - she is 25 with a 6 year old boy, living with her parents. We dated, had sex a few times, she was quite impulsive and bullish, a bit supportive, and a man kind of a caracter. Thus, after hanging out for some time, ie - a month, she just disappeared and hangs out with this friend of mine. They started chatting and hanging out together, when I asked her out somewhere - she most of the times was busy.
I feel like being used and wronged big time, I met bad girls before. but this one is just beyond believe.
On the other hand that ex, started contacting me, ex left me to date other guy...
I have a feeling that I need to change a whole lot in my life, including my attitude and view on things, like not allowing crappy people being around me. I would be like a weak person asking for advice here, but I think that I need to at least share my thought with somebody.
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Stay away from bad girls ;) looks like to me she just wanted to fuck and nothing else. If she had any reapct at all for herself or you, she wouldn't have disappeared.
Seems like your a nice guy who went through a bad break up. Being home and focusing on life and what you want is perfectly fine until you meet the right one.
PS: your not weak. Takes a lot to ask for advice ;)0