She has not spoke to me in 3 days because we got into an argument over something stupid. I will admit i kinda started it. So it was stupid and it was about gas. I told her she can have my car for 3 days and i said when she retunrs it to me to fill it up at least half. Well she didn't, then i told her that she's a liar and then she started yelling at me then i yelled at her and now we don't talk :( I been with her for 8 months also she is my first girlfriend so like I don't know how to handle this. I keep texting her and she doesn't reply then i texted her "stop being a 2 year old and stop ignoring me liar", then she texted me "you're an asshole, talk to me better". I did not say anyting bad? did i? can someone pleas help me cause i'm actually losing sleep over her :(
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I think you're both kind of to blame, but more so her. She didn't fill up and appears to have lied and you got angry and accused her of being a liar which she didn't take well. She's not very mature though to be giving you the silent treatment for days. You're meant to communicate in relationships, so she's not pulling her weight in this relationship. Don't assume everything's your fault, don't think the sun shines out her ass otherwise she'll have you wrapped around her little finger, which it seems she already has.
You can do one of two things. Don't text her at all, give her the same treatment back until she's ready to talk. You not paying attention to her will bug her so much, she'll get back in contact.
Or you can contact her, either in person or by text, and say something like "look, giving me the silent treatment doesn't solve anything and prolongs what was just a small fall out. It doesn't need to be made bigger than it was. However, if that small fall out has pissed you off so much that you need time, I'll leave you alone until you contact me again and want to work things out and actually communicate with me. If you don't contact me, then I'll assume this isn't going to work out."
She should get the message.0