My boyfriend was suicidal before I met him, but recently it seemed as if he was better. He seemed happy whenever I saw him and he was always smiling, laughing or being friendly with people. He told me that he thinks he may be on the path to being suicidal again. I don't know what to do. This whole weeks been terrible for him and whenever we have to go a while without seeing eachother he has bad weeks. We live an hour away from eachother and im worried that might be what's bringing this on again. I think he may be depressed and I want him to get help, but I don't know what to do. He's told me not to stress, worry or be scared, but what else am I supposed to be when he tells me he may be suicidal again?
His is dad was an alcoholic and he started drinking again, my boyfriend hates his job, and I live an hot away. I think all of these has conntributed to it. I just don't know what to do. I told him I want to get him help, and tested for depression and if he is get him some treatment. He has ADHD already. I just want to get him the help he needs. I don't know what to do.
He kind of seems like he's angry or always in a bad mood whenever we can't see eachother. The only times I've actually seen him happy is when I am down. Any other time we talk he's always talking about how much work sucks it how he's having a bad day/week. Even his friends notice a change when I am not around.
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I mean the only suggestion I have, and its much much easier said than done, is to get him out of there. He's clearly in a toxic environment and having already had depression, that kind of stress only amplifies it tenfold. He absolutely needs to find a job he likes, a place he can call home, and people around him who don't cause him stress.0