22 year old girl.
Grew up pretty isolated , no dating, barely any friends, no sex, no partying no nothing. It also has to do with the fact that i had to wear a back brace for 4,5 years day and night due to my scoliosis but my mom was also sheltering and anti social from time to time. At the age of 22 i have A HARD TIME dealing with people, im 22 and i feel like i MISSED out i feel like i can't behave like a normal person, like im a ticking time bomb, i disorganized because i want to do so much, i feel like i might explode, i almost had sex with guys i dont know, i keep talking in class, which is distracting me from my school work, i keep feeling like the grass is greener on the other side. What can i do? im so angry i can't focus anymore at school?
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Start going out... well it seems to be pretty obvious solution but once you start seeing people you will feel open... People like meeting new people and once you met a crowd who is willing to get to know you, you will feel comfortable...
You said you grew up isolated.. Well pretty much we all have some bad history... its not only you...
Just find what you are good at... drawing.. singing, some hobby... start going for the gym.. workout.. buy a pet.. drink.. eat various food... take a trip... go to another country... Trust me... once you get busy with stuff it will go off not knowingly... Well you said you have school but you can skip one day or take a weekend... go to a community service... or a charity service... get busy..
Start selfmotivating your self... every morning look in to the mirror and think about your future.. if you don't have a start... just plan what your going to do next.. Take a shower or go have breakfast.. Then what's after that.. and go on... think about Tue future.. not the present.. You can make it.