My boyfriend and I are long distance (and of course an online relationship).
I'm seeing him next month.
We've never skyped but he's sent me pictures of him in things I've sent him so like I know he's real but he's said he's skyped with his ex-girlfriend before (she lived a few hours from him) and okay, it's cool and all but that is ONE of the things I'm super jealous of.
Like all we do is talk on the phone and he's always on the computer but he won't Skype with me.
He's told me before he's sent numerous dick pics to other girls before me and claims he's huge but he says I need to wait to see it.
I'm a virgin, he's had sex before and okay the other day he admitted to taking other girls' virginties and he's like, "yeah you'll be my fourth, how lucky am i?" And he's really set on having sex with me and he's said something along the lines of, "yeah, it's been a year since I've last had sex" like okay.
I feel like shit and i dunno, is it wrong of me to be jealous and not want to have sex with this guy? Like he lives with his parents and he's a few years older than me and he sounds like a butt but he's actually really nice and this whole question was super confusing sorry.
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I think if you're having doubts then you should always trust your feelings. It's ok to be jealous that he's been with people before you, that makes some people feel bad, it's not for everyone but I would be more concerned with the things he's saying, he doesn't sound very mature or respectful. And why does he assume that you're going to have sex him when you see him? I think you should make it clear that you want to take things slow if that's what you want to do.1