So I have been talking to this guy I met on an online dating site. We haven't met in person yet. I gave him my number monday, he texted me the next day at like 9 am and we texted for 2 hours. He was super flirtatious and we became friends on Facebook. He asked fo a full body shot (fully clothed of course) and I told him one I would post one on the dating site and he just said that he wants it for him and doesn't want all the other guys checkin me out on the dating site( it didn't come across possessive or anything.) I texted him the next day and he asked me to text him a pic of me, so I did.
I didn't hear from him yesterday- it was thanksgiving so I'm not too mad about that at all.
I just don't know what the rules are. Do I text him, or do I let him pursue me? I want him to know I'm into him, and I totally want to meet up with him.
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"and I totally want to meet up with him."
Take out the word "totally" and you have the rules memorized. You want to show your desire to meet up with someone in person, or to continue talking with them etc (This indicates you would like to continue interacting). On the contrary, you do not want to show that you are either of the "extremes" such as:
- "Omg omg omg omg I really miss you, will you come home? please please please"
- "Hey. Yeah.. school was good.. You?"
Example 1) You would be showing too much of a desire and thus be labeled "clingy or needy"
Example 2) You are showing too little desire and thus are labeled "Busy or uninterested"