Last two years I'm really struggling in a dating life. I do my best to find a good men, but in most of the cases they turn out to be players or they treat me bad. At some point I became very careful and very picky and I even ask my friends for their opinion and they approve my choices. But what happens next? It was a player again, but a good liar..
I really don't understand. People tell me I'm pretty, I have a good job, I behave well and treat people with kindness. Where is the problem?
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You can't do anything about it except be careful but sometimes it's not enough.
You will be a better target for them if you are significantly better looking than average.
Essentially a player is a guy with a talent to seduce women.
Whether he wants to use his talent to have sex with many women and deceive them, or find the one he really wants and stick with her, is very hard to determine.
You can look for signs but if he's good.. you're fucked. Unless you make him wait but this could drive away good men as well.
A player most likely won't wait several months to fuck you. He'll just drop the ball and go somewhere else.
You can also chose a guy that is less talented / successful with women, as he doesn't have the luxury to jump from one pussy to another.
But I don't like the idea of downgrading...
Tough one ! :)2
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