So I went to my boyfriend's place yesterday. We had dinner and afterwards we started kissing on the couch. anyway, he stopped me several times and said he wanted to take things slow because he 'really liked me'. He said he didn't want to hurt our relationship by rushing into sex or hurting me. I'm a virgin by the way. He said these things as we were both quite turned on, repeatedly saying he really liked me and wasn't just looking for sex.
Why would he be saying this though? usually the guys I've dated in the past have always gone along with it and been more aggressive. (and no he isn't a virgin)
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Based on his previous relationships, he doesn't want to corrupt your young mind with sex and its pleasures. He wants a solid relationship. A relationship that will be different from him and you.
If he is your first one, then he wants to you to enjoy and feel the true relationship. Not one of those fake ones that some poeple have experienced.2