I say these days, but of course I'm not really sure if its anything thats changed or not.
But I see SOO many posts on these forums from guys (that I presume are sexually frustrated) that are usually go along the lines of the following:
\I'm a nice guy but it seems girls only want the dickheads
\Feminism/Darwinism etc is flawed and destroying men's confidence and being able to treat women well
\Women are flawed and their mate selection process is flawed
\I'm a short guy. Women only want tall men and that is flawed
\I'm Asian/Black guy and women only want Caucasian men and that is flawed
etc etc etc
\I'm an ugly guy, but decent women only want the hot guys.
\Talking, confidence etc is all BS. The woman just rejects me before I even open my mouth.
Seriously, is this an epidemic or something? Why do we see so many sexually frustrated young men these days? (or at least on GAG haha)
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What you have observed has been the case since our forebears came down from the trees, although it became much worse during the latter half of the 20th Century and is becoming worse steadily.
I can assure you that there are also sexually frustrated old men, who were sexually frustrated young men who grew old. Those who did not neck themselves, that is. Eighty per cent of suicides are male. It is the leading cause of death among Western males aged 15 to 30, mainly due to their inability to form a relationship with a woman, or after the failure of a relationship. Plenty has been written about that, if you want to search the journals.
The current situation is due to several factors.
One is that between the onset of puberty and the age of about 25 the brains of both males and females go through a process of sexual maturation. During this process, neural pathways are culled and new pathways are formed. As a result of this process, the way that we think changes.
Knowing what I know now, I can say with conviction that it is a really bad idea for anyone younger than 25 to make any big life decisions, because the way that they think at, say, 21 will not be how they think at 26.
During this process of sexual maturation, the female becomes confused and cannot distinguish the faux confidence of the bad boy and the behaviour and character traits of a true alpha male. The result is that about 80 per cent of young females throw themselves crotch first at a conga line of bad boys, each one of whom will break her heart.
This begins to change as she nears 30. At some point, she will have the epiphany that the 'nice guys' (hate that term) whom she has been friend zoning for the previous decade were, in reality, the best relationship material.
This situation is exacerbated by a Pavlovian mindfuck that is administered by Hollyweird.
Think about just about any film or television series that has a romantic plot, or subplot. The male romantic lead will be a bad boy from the wrong side, who is misunderstood cruelly by the parents of the 'good girl' who is the only one who can see his heart of gold. That crap has been served up to females since Shakespeare penned Romeo and Juliette, if not earlier.
This mindfuck reinforces the confusion that young females experience and steers them straight into the beds of the bad boys, oily nightclub Romeos and sundry pickup artists.
For the final part of the picture, throw in rabidly misandrist Third Wave Feminism, which harms both genders.1
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